The magnitude of the vector \(\mathbf{u}\) is:
\[
\boxed{\|\mathbf{u}\| = \sqrt{26}}
\]
The unit vector in the direction of \(\mathbf{u}\) is:
\[
\boxed{\mathbf{v} = \begin{bmatrix} \frac{4}{\sqrt{26}} \\ \frac{3}{\sqrt{26}} \\ \frac{1}{\sqrt{26}} \end{bmatrix}}
\]